Long before Sharron Stone gave this phrase a sexual flavor, it used to signify something else, something deeper than the skin. The feeling, the hunch of knowing something, the ability to predict something. Remember the time when u disliked a guy, without a reason? Remember when u get uncomfortable in someone's presence despite his/her best efforts to make u feel good? You find something is amiss. I think thats what is basic instinct.
N today I accept what I never did... I have an excellent instinctive system wrt judging people. Was stupid enough to ignore its presence.. Would always be the first one to proclaim myself as the defender of logic n reason. But some ppl would just be hell bent on me accepting it finally, that am pretty-pretty good at judging people. I don't remember any instance where my initial feeling about a person has been proven wrong. I still remember that gal in y school whom i knew to be ..... But then i became friends with her behavior made me ignore my hunch. But hey she proved me right just before i left the school. N today... The biggest example which made me change the stance... I knew he was like this... Always knew it... Yet he managed to do that twice... I guess I should be blamed only. I thought people learn from their mistakes, he would as well. What i ignored was that i myself did not learn from mine... Bad for me! You know what, the basic nature of people doesn't change. Their behavior may tempt you to think otherwise.. They might become your friends, but no! They would not change! Do you really think 25 yrs of formations would give way to some months old "friendship"? A weakling remains just that, a s*** always has only one hormone working, n a bastard is anyone's guess!
N yeah one more thing at me.... If at all u wanna know me more, understand one thing about me... I have this huuuuuuge ego! You dont have to inflate it, but u r gone if u hurt it... Has anyone been able to get away by steppin on it? No dude! No!
So dude, next time you think of changing you opinion about someone, think again. Maybe your initial hunch is right... The person is not worth another chance. I know for myself, from now on, its the basic instinct that rocks!
N today I accept what I never did... I have an excellent instinctive system wrt judging people. Was stupid enough to ignore its presence.. Would always be the first one to proclaim myself as the defender of logic n reason. But some ppl would just be hell bent on me accepting it finally, that am pretty-pretty good at judging people. I don't remember any instance where my initial feeling about a person has been proven wrong. I still remember that gal in y school whom i knew to be ..... But then i became friends with her behavior made me ignore my hunch. But hey she proved me right just before i left the school. N today... The biggest example which made me change the stance... I knew he was like this... Always knew it... Yet he managed to do that twice... I guess I should be blamed only. I thought people learn from their mistakes, he would as well. What i ignored was that i myself did not learn from mine... Bad for me! You know what, the basic nature of people doesn't change. Their behavior may tempt you to think otherwise.. They might become your friends, but no! They would not change! Do you really think 25 yrs of formations would give way to some months old "friendship"? A weakling remains just that, a s*** always has only one hormone working, n a bastard is anyone's guess!
N yeah one more thing at me.... If at all u wanna know me more, understand one thing about me... I have this huuuuuuge ego! You dont have to inflate it, but u r gone if u hurt it... Has anyone been able to get away by steppin on it? No dude! No!
So dude, next time you think of changing you opinion about someone, think again. Maybe your initial hunch is right... The person is not worth another chance. I know for myself, from now on, its the basic instinct that rocks!
1 comment:
Boss, when u wrote this i guess someone had really hurt ur "ego"
:-) and I am guessing that some incident made u write this blog..
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